How Mike Vrabel balances life with a head coach’s relentless schedule
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NASHVILLE, Tenn. — Chinese language takeout. That was what Tennessee Titans head coach Mike Vrabel mentioned he was planning to eat for Thanksgiving dinner final 12 months.
In fact, Vrabel would have preferred to have joined his household for the vacation, however he needed to keep on the workplace to arrange for a Week 12 recreation in opposition to the Houston Texans on Monday Evening Soccer. That is NFL life.
Like most NFL coaches, Mike Vrabel retains lengthy hours even within the offseason. Christopher Hanewinckel/USA TODAY Sports activities
Even the offseason is demanding. Here is a pattern of what Vrabel’s schedule appeared like throughout minicamp:
four:30 a.m.: Go away for the workplace
Coaches health membership. They decide various things to do — typically they push the blocking sled. It is one other bonding alternative for them. Vrabel makes it some extent to decide to discovering 30 minutes for his personal well being. “It is a aggravating setting. I’ve to remind myself to care for myself mentally and bodily.”
Breakfast
Plan group assembly
Meet with coordinators
Meet with director of sports activities drugs Todd Toriscelli to speak in regards to the well being of the group
Sit in on totally different place conferences
Cease by the coaching room to speak to gamers
Apply
Information convention
Extra conferences, evaluate observe movie
6 p.m.: Go away the workplace
Along with his tasks on the facility, the Titans’ group occasions within the night can hold Vrabel out later.
“If there’s one thing occurring at evening, I’ve to get some extra work executed throughout the day in order that I can get out for that look or occasion,” Vrabel mentioned.
The second-year head coach all the time has soccer on his thoughts, constantly evaluating methods to enhance his group. However he is additionally a household man who strives to remain concerned along with his spouse, Jen, and two sons, Carter and Tyler. How does he stability the 2?
In brief, it is sustaining priorities regardless of quite a few calls for of the job.
Staying linked
Vrabel’s oldest son, Tyler, is a 19-year-old redshirt freshman offensive lineman for Boston Faculty. Generally Vrabel flies as much as Massachusetts to take a look at Tyler’s video games if the Titans have a bye week or a Thursday evening recreation.
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His youthful son, Carter, 17, is a pitcher on Father Ryan Excessive College’s baseball group in Nashville. Vrabel has no drawback wrapping up his day at St. Thomas Sports activities Park to soak up Carter’s video games, even when certainly one of them begins at four:30 p.m.
“You like what your loved ones loves. There’s a variety of baseball video games. Carter loves baseball. When there’s a baseball recreation, I’m leaving,” Vrabel mentioned.
Since Carter is at video games or observe loads, Jen does not cook dinner as a lot as she used to. However Vrabel mentioned his favourite dish she makes is lemon rooster with pasta. Jen mentioned she received the recipe from Heidi Bruschi, the spouse of former New England Patriots teammate Tedy Bruschi.
“She made it the primary time we went over to their home for dinner. I used to be like, ‘I want this recipe!'” Jen mentioned.
Staying linked with household is one thing Vrabel stresses to members of his employees, too, particularly throughout the offseason.
“I inform our employees that we work an excessive amount of throughout the season for any of our guys to overlook one thing that their household has within the offseason. That is not wholesome for his or her households,” Vrabel mentioned whereas sitting at his desk after a minicamp observe in June. “It isn’t wholesome for them. They don’t seem to be going to be productive right here at work in the event that they’re pondering, ‘Man, I want I used to be at that recreation.’ If their child has a recreation or a dance recital, I want them to be concerned in that.”
Vrabel’s assistants respect his work-life philosophy. Defensive coordinator Dean Pees was particularly grateful to Vrabel for permitting him to go to Canton, Ohio, final 12 months throughout coaching camp for former Baltimore Ravens linebacker Ray Lewis’ Corridor of Fame induction ceremony. Pees will probably be taking the journey as soon as once more this August when Ravens security Ed Reed is inducted. Each gamers performed for Pees in Baltimore.
“Coach Vrabel does an incredible job of giving coaches lengthy weekends off throughout the offseason, together with a number of full weeks off throughout that very same interval,” Pees mentioned. “We have now nearly 5 weeks off in the summertime. In the course of the season, he’s a head coach that does not watch the clock. It is get your work executed and go residence — myself together with all of the coaches really respect that.”
Navigating the season grind
Surprisingly, teaching within the NFL has afforded the Vrabels extra time collectively than when he was a linebackers coach at Ohio State.
“Fridays are all the time our nights as a result of we’ve a teenage son that does not wish to hang around with Mother and Dad, so he goes to highschool soccer video games,” Jen mentioned. “It is enjoyable. He is normally residence earlier, and we seize dinner. When he coached in school, he actually did not have an evening like that, so we cherish that evening. It was the identical when he performed. Fridays have been all the time the most effective. It turned like a date evening or household evening.”
However on different weekday nights throughout the season, Vrabel can get residence from the power as late as 11 p.m. He wants time to wind down earlier than he can sleep — that is when he has to battle poor consuming habits. Vrabel shook his head on the considered all of the late-night snacks and leftover pizza he has put away.
Maintaining a healthy diet in season might be difficult. Like most group workers, Vrabel largely eats what’s supplied on the group facility. He loves the Buffalo rooster wraps.
“I have been hammering too a lot of these. They put them there, and each time you stroll by, you are tempted to seize one,” Vrabel mentioned with a smile.
Regardless of the workaholic NFL tradition, Mike Vrabel nonetheless manages to get away along with his household, together with his spouse, Jen, and his sons Tyler, heart, and Carter, proper. Courtesy of Mike Vrabel
On weeks when the Titans have street video games, Vrabel does not see his household a lot on Saturdays or Sundays. Vrabel and his spouse primarily textual content one another to maintain in touch. Again-to-back street video games are the worst as a result of there are occasions when the group returns to Nashville late at evening so Vrabel may not see his household on consecutive weekends. Jen purchased Mike an inflatable queen-sized mattress for the occasional nights when he has to crash on the workplace.
Sleeping on the facility is one thing Vrabel tries to keep away from. However typically it is necessary to save lots of time and get a bounce on the following day.
Dwelling video games afford him an opportunity for extra household time. Vrabel goes to the power round 12:30 p.m. on Saturday however returns in time to relax with the household. “We like to sit down round and watch school soccer,” Jen mentioned.
After an informal school soccer scouting session, Vrabel heads to the group lodge round 7 or 7:30 p.m. earlier than a house recreation. The Sunday afternoon video games enable him to get residence earlier and see his household earlier than going again to work Monday.
So what do the Vrabels do to get away from the grind? They deliberate an RV journey to Atlanta this summer time. Vrabel laughed as he instructed the media that he did a ok job on an identical journey final 12 months to speak Jen into taking the journey once more. Sitting behind the wheel on the four-hour journey gave him loads of time to assume. Though it is the offseason, the relentless pursuit of discovering an edge over the opponent will not enable Vrabel to detach from soccer totally, particularly with coaching camp quickly approaching.
“I feel it on a regular basis. You are all the time fascinated about a play or a participant all through the course of your day or evening or day off,” Vrabel mentioned.